Hey y’all! I wanted to apologize for ask box messages not being answered for quite some time. I posted a couple months ago explaining that I was in a rough spot emotionally and just couldn’t handle ask box messages. I’m doing better now though so I’m going to try to answer them again. I really appreciate your patience with this. The ask box currently has over 1,000 messages so I probably won’t get through the old ones, but I will try to do my best to answer new messages as they come in.
(And as always check my FAQ first, you might find the answer to your question there).
It’s 1am so I’m sorry for the people who won’t see this. But if you want confidence and don’t know how to get it, a really good way is to be confident in other people. When you walk into Starbucks, think, “damn, that barista’s hair is da bomb!” Or when you go to school, think, “my teacher is rocking that skirt!” When you start seeing everyone as being beautiful, at some point you realize that you’re everyone too.
You are not some kind of a saint because you “still think women are beautiful” without makeup on. You do not get brownie points for not being disgusted by women in their natural state. Some women wear a little makeup, some women wear a lot, some women wear none at all and men’s opinions about it are less than worthless. Because we don’t fucking wear it for you.